It's common to hear someone say that they can't change who they are in response to some action that they did. I especially hear this when someone does something wrong. I remember hearing it on the show Cheaters when some guy started having feelings for his girlfriend's best friend, who he ended up being with. When caught, his response was, I can't help it.
Is this response a valid? Is that how life works or can we control who we are and what we do?
Is this response a valid? Is that how life works or can we control who we are and what we do?