- Nov 23, 2021
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In “measured honesty,” you don’t lie, but neither do you tell the whole truth.
For example, if you’re living in a religious family and you become an atheist or agnostic, there’s probably more downside than upside in telling parents, grandparents, Aunt, Uncle, etc, even siblings.
Even if asked a direct religious question, maybe—
[pause] “I don’t know”
[another pause] “What do you think?”
Meaning, gently and slowly turn the question around. And as a fallback position, have in your hip pocket something like—
[said naturally and slow to medium] “Different churches, believe different things.”
Meaning, if you’re an atheist, maybe pretend to be an agnostic [if and when they push you that far, but try to avoid being pushed]
Maybe even still attend some religious services, but tail back on your least favorite parts.
I’m thinking of people in religious Christian families. But I’m thinking this general approach might work if you’re in a Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, or Sikh family. Even if God forbid , you’re living in a Pagan family!
PS Just as a fun tidbit, Sikhs are the world’s 3rd largest monotheistic religion.
For example, if you’re living in a religious family and you become an atheist or agnostic, there’s probably more downside than upside in telling parents, grandparents, Aunt, Uncle, etc, even siblings.
Even if asked a direct religious question, maybe—
[pause] “I don’t know”
[another pause] “What do you think?”
Meaning, gently and slowly turn the question around. And as a fallback position, have in your hip pocket something like—
[said naturally and slow to medium] “Different churches, believe different things.”
Meaning, if you’re an atheist, maybe pretend to be an agnostic [if and when they push you that far, but try to avoid being pushed]
Maybe even still attend some religious services, but tail back on your least favorite parts.
I’m thinking of people in religious Christian families. But I’m thinking this general approach might work if you’re in a Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, or Sikh family. Even if God forbid , you’re living in a Pagan family!
PS Just as a fun tidbit, Sikhs are the world’s 3rd largest monotheistic religion.
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