on ethics —
Should a book of advice for young men say, “Look, affairs aren’t great, but if you’re going to cheat on your wife, do so with someone your wife hasn’t met and isn’t going to meet.”
“In particular, don’t cheat with your wife’s sister . . . It will be perceived as a double betrayal, which it is. And you want a change of pace, right? How the heck is the sister a change of pace?”
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Yes, I’m preaching the less bad. And then I’m asking, do this make either affairs or the sister “forbidden fruit”?
I’ve read that men break down 1/3, 1/3, 1/3. Meaning—
1/3 of men are one-woman type of guys, perhaps with the occasional temptation which can be side-stepped matter-of-factly,
1/3 of men stay largely faithful, with some difficulty
1/3 of men, don’t really have it within themselves to be faithful
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A friend of mine told me that the written porn women like tends to be more imaginative and just plain more weird than the written porn men like.
this is height,
and sexual imagination, likely will haveveven more overlap!
