Each person observed the same accident, but they each saw certain aspects that the other observers failed to see. Matthew, Mark and Luke's account record the same event, but from different points of views. Also, each writer was writing to a different audience for different reasons.
So, maybe we read the verses in more loosey-goosey fashion. And I agree with this.
For example, there is the one or several verses in which Jesus says the one unforgivable sin is blasphemy of the Holy Spirit. And many individual Christians have been tormented by this. Please, please don’t see it .. this directly, this whatever.
Or, the part in Mark 4:12 in which Jesus is shown saying that he speaks in parable so that those outside the circle WILL NOT understand. To me, the parables have always been pretty straight forward. And for dramatic reasons, the disciplines are depicted as being dumber than a box of rocks.
Again, focus more on the broad story of sacrifice
[or maybe taking a personal risk], forgiveness, redemption, etc. If I had done that, I might have remained a Christian.
Although I think things have worked out pretty well. I try to help other people.
And one of my big goals here at Agnostic Forum is to help provide a soft landing to people leaving a heavy dose of religion.